Teen dating violence: almost half had abusive relationship

We know violence sometimes exist between married couples, even couples who are dating. But, teen dating violence has become a growing problem.The Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence says dating abuse is widespread.

Nationally, up to 40% of teens have been in abusive relationships and of those that have 43% experienced abuse while at school. The group believes schools must get involved saying teens are statistically at a higher risk for intimate partner abuse than adults. An Iowa Coalition spokesperson says if dating violence is ever going to be stopped, teens must be engaged where they are most likely to be influenced, at school.

Kemi Jones of the Sioux City Council on Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence shared insight on what teens should know and signs to look for. She says teens in an abusive relationship are often kept isolated from their friends by the controlling partner. They may be obsessively texting or calling, wanting to know whereabouts. Jones also says they may not support activities outside the relationship.

An aggressor uses power, control and intimidation to convince their boyfriend or girlfriend that they are doing what they do because they love them. Jones says friends who recognize this behavior should be supportive and encourage them to call the CSADV 24 hour crisis line for confidential support and advice.